Glorious win

I don't think anyone is a loser for doing something that's instinctive. But, I may consider someone a loser if he does something instinctively, dislikes what he did and yet, remain untouched about it and not for a moment, consider himself a loser about it.

You are certainly not a loser.

You won my world, my heart, my care, concern, respect and love. You may not have won the whole world, everybody. But, you won me.

There's no chance, at all, that you are a loser.